Why should you not hesitate to hug the failure?

It is true that success hugs you in private and failure slaps you in public. It is also true that failure is the pillar of success. Then what to do? Should I hug the failure or corner it? 

It is not always true that, to be a successful man, you need to hug the failure. But history has witnessed that every successful man has some failure stories. Failure is not our enemy. Every time we fail, we learn some lesson. The lesson will be continued till that time we do not learn from our mistakes.  

Failure teaches us that, a petty negligency can change the whole story. Failure is the teacher. Hugging the failure means we are ready to accept our own mistakes and also ready to rectify them and move forward. Merely ignoring failure won't change the scenario. Ignoring failure will lead us to be remain in failure zone only. 

Those have never hesitated to hug the failure have able overcome the great trauma easily. When a man stepping into the success zone and keeps on moving in this zone, the phobia of failure takes shelter in his mind though unknowingly.  Now he is at a stage where he is not ready to accept the failure at all. He is sure that failure is not part of his life.  Now when failure hits such man, he gets insulted. Unexpected things happened in his life. Then what is the use of his life? We have seen many industrialists, celebrities, rich and successful men did not think twice to give up their lives merely due to some small failure in life. The failure could have been overcome and situation could have been revived. But nay! 

When success takes the front seat in our life and never ready to listen that failure could be part of our life. Then it is very difficult to take the life forward. Because,  both failure and success are part and parcel of everybody's life. 

The student who was expecting to score 98% marks, when gets 97.99% marks, he sees the failure in himself. For him there is no meaning of life.  The industrialist who was expecting to be 3rd richest man in the world when ranked as 4th one, he is finished. Now all his achievements are faded. Those are nothing in front of this small failure. In our everyday's life we encounter with same thing. Whether it is in the case of getting a tender or winning a prize, whether the matter of miss world or miss universe, whether getting top most position in the company or being honored within the family. Everywhere the success story is expected and failure is seen as darkest part of our life. 

But all these confusions can be got rid of merely by accepting the failure  make the life get going with the phenomena of what to do now and how to overcome this. It is not unknown to we all that the shortcut to success is hard work.  If success is not getting into our pocket means at some point of time we have shown some negligency  and that is the point failure found its place to enter into. 

Last but not the least, hugging the failure willingly will teach us if nothing but will save a lot.